Make sure the Officiant respects you and your relationship– regardless of who you love; regardless of your gender identity or expression; regardless of your spiritual understanding.

Make sure the Officiant you choose will tailor the ceremony to you, not just read the same ceremony they used for the last six couples with the names and pronouns changed.

Make sure the Wedding Coordinator and the Officiant have an opportunity to talk with each other prior to the day of the ceremony to ensure clear expectations and a smooth ceremony.